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“Friends” this word actually a very
beautiful relationship but at one point it’s actually interferes my
relationship as she starts spending more time with her friends and giving them
more importance then me, she stop talking to me, stops sharing things, no
replies on messages not picking my phone calls, and when I asked her that why
you are doing this to me then the word she said I hate the most “not willing to
talk”, “nothing”. This behavior of her really irritates me and forced me to
think that she is not at all interested in me, but the real thing is that, it’s
all in my mind there is nothing like that she is focusing on her friends more,
she is doing it just because of my ignorance regarding her problems, she is
letting me understand that what is happening to her and with all this she is
pushing me to understand that relationship is like a flower in a garden, proper attention
and care makes it beautiful and lack of it, ruins it..
After all this i get to know that your
work is important, your career is important, your life is important, but your
relationship is important too.
Relationship is all about respecting
each other’s point of view, thoughts and most important each other, at the
starting of our relationship we maintained the same very beautifully, but with
the passage of time it’s getting difficult for us to maintain it just because
lack of understanding, we are started refusing each other’s thoughts, and started forcing our thoughts to
each other’s but friends I realized the same that in each relationship it needs
some space, let your partner do what he or she wants, it will give them
pleasure and also creates a respect in their heart for you. And you will also
feel happy and he/she will also give you space and respect your thoughts too.
Care never means that you have to
leave all your all work and running towards him/her. It's actually meaning is to
be with them when they actually need you. Give your 100% to solve their
problems, no need to worry if you fails to solve their problems, they will love
you because you were there with them in their hard times standing beside them.
Relationship is the one you choose,
the one you love and the one you care about. It’s an integral part of our life
and a very beautiful one also. Take care of your relationship it will take care
of you.
“It’s hard to handle, but beautiful
as flower”
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Ratti Vimal
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