Magic Or Confidence

Magic Or Confidence

“Believe is believe, it’s just because we believe in it” 

      These two words will play very big role in my life till the time I am breathing in this beautiful world. We always think that the thing beyond our imagination and which we can’t be able to understand that is “Magic”. It happens with me so many times in my life. In every phase of my life I faced this thing, and it always gives me pleasure to live my life with more force, it helps me in every aspect, it doesn’t matter that is it small or big... It was always there with me.
      Magic…. It always helps me to be the best, it always helps me to get good marks in exams, it always helps me in creating impressions in front of people, It helps me to get promotions at my workplace, all in all it always works for me. It’s all just because of magic I never stops in my life. It never let me down. Whenever I stuck in any of the problem, it was there to help me.
      After reading all this things you must have thinking I am still a child... but yes, we all are children... I know will agree with me on this topic. Have you ever heard your parents or your elderly saying this to you “Child… just do it with your heart, God will be there to do the magic….” With the passage of time this sentence got vanished from your mind, but I never forgot it.
We all are having this magic, and we all know that. But do you really think that is it magic..?? I am leaving this all upon you all.
      If you will ask me I will say, its the magic of your confidence, as a one line of your parents and the person you really believe a lot, gives you so much confidence to make the dreams to reality. This confidence helps me to become the best, because I have the confidence that I will be what I want to be. It helps me getting good marks in exam, because I have the confidence that I can get it. It helps me creating impressions among people, because I am confidante about my abilities to impress people. It helps me to get promotions at my workplace, because I am confident about my skills, knowledge and presentation.
      Magic and Confidence is the two aspect of a same coin, some believes it's magic because we haven’t understood the reasons why and how  this thing happens and some believes it's Confidence because they know that what happens and what will happen is just because of their own self.

“The perceptions are different but it means the same”

It's Complicated II

It's Complicated II

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      “Friends” this word actually a very beautiful relationship but at one point it’s actually interferes my relationship as she starts spending more time with her friends and giving them more importance then me, she stop talking to me, stops sharing things, no replies on messages not picking my phone calls, and when I asked her that why you are doing this to me then the word she said I hate the most “not willing to talk”, “nothing”. This behavior of her really irritates me and forced me to think that she is not at all interested in me, but the real thing is that, it’s all in my mind there is nothing like that she is focusing on her friends more, she is doing it just because of my ignorance regarding her problems, she is letting me understand that what is happening to her and with all this she is pushing me to understand that relationship is like a flower in a garden, proper attention and care makes it beautiful and lack of it, ruins it..

      After all this i get to know that your work is important, your career is important, your life is important, but your relationship is important too.

      Relationship is all about respecting each other’s point of view, thoughts and most important each other, at the starting of our relationship we maintained the same very beautifully, but with the passage of time it’s getting difficult for us to maintain it just because lack of understanding, we are started refusing each other’s  thoughts, and started forcing our thoughts to each other’s but friends I realized the same that in each relationship it needs some space, let your partner do what he or she wants, it will give them pleasure and also creates a respect in their heart for you. And you will also feel happy and he/she will also give you space and respect your thoughts too.

      Care never means that you have to leave all your all work and running towards him/her. It's actually meaning is to be with them when they actually need you. Give your 100% to solve their problems, no need to worry if you fails to solve their problems, they will love you because you were there with them in their hard times standing beside them.

      Relationship is the one you choose, the one you love and the one you care about. It’s an integral part of our life and a very beautiful one also. Take care of your relationship it will take care of you.

“It’s hard to handle, but beautiful as flower”

                                                --- Ratti Vimal