It's Complicated
“Creating relationship is always
easy, but hard to handle it”
---- Ratti Vimal
My life always was a roller-coaster
ride. Which actually indicates to a fun loving life of mine but alone, But it’s
not the story of my whole life. I always thinks before my relationship that
whenever I will be in relationship I will never let her down, I will never let
her feel upset, we will be the happiest couple of this world, but my friends
come to the real world it always happens in movies and all that two
passionately beautiful people came in contact and creates a happy relationship
and they live happy ever after. But my friends it’s all a dream “boommmmmm…..”
now I will tell you what happened when two totally different personalities
comes in contact with each other.
A very sensitive as well as
understanding girl (My Girlfriend), she always be a very interesting
personality for me in my whole life, she is “Friend zone” kind of girl, means
always wants to hang out with friends, in good times as well as in bad times
too, love her freedom, every day I gets to know something new about her, but
about my personality now you can judge that I was totally different no friends,
preferred to be alone, don’t know what you think about me but I have seen more than
30 movies in theater and 29 times I have seen it alone I love to travel but
with my loneliness and then god creates some circumstances and we introduced by
a common friend as we are working for same company but we both don’t even waved
to each other before that, after meeting we became good friends
She cares about me and me too cares
about her, we started spending time with each other and I love her company. One
thing I want to mention that people says relationship changes your life, and
that’s what happening with me and somewhat this change making me feels good. In
every new relationship there is more care, more interest, more love, more
attachment more possessiveness, it’s all sounding very loving and romantic but
actual exam of you starts here. These all points are very sensitive and if not
handled with care will ruin your beautiful relationship.
As per my experience with the passage
of time all the things like care, interest, love, attachment, possessiveness can
becomes weak if proper time and attention not provided to them, a relationship
needs consistent spark in it so that it will run for long time, and special
attentions, surprises, proper communications and your gesture can work as spark
in your relationship.
In my case in starting it feels like dream comes
true but as I said before, it’s hard to handle, your small mistake can ruin
your relationship. never let your ego interfere your relationship, it destroyed
so many lives already, can also destroy you relationship too, relationship is
all about care someone you love, understanding is the secret of a happy
relationship, but in my relationship due to some misunderstanding and conflicts
at many point of time our relationship came to an end but I never let this
happen I always tries hard to keep it secure, but she always tries to end it but
after so many tries I get to know that she is not doing it willingly she is
just doing it because we both are not able to give proper attention and time to
each other but at both end we are thinking he/she is not caring about me she is
busy in his/her life and their friends, but there is nothing like that it’s
just and mindset which makes their home in our minds.to be continue....
